Coffee-cup Wisdom and Winning Your Colleagues’ Respect
Some of you already know that I started my publishing
career in newspapers before working in magazine and trade journal publishing. In
the late 1980s, journalism was still very much a man’s domain, and it was rare
for a young woman to capture a seat of power and influence among the crusty old
cronies who ruled the newsroom. I still have the coffee cup my mom bought me in
1987 that says, “Whatever a woman does she must do twice as well as a man to
be considered half as good.” She thought that it would be a good reminder as I
climbed up the publishing ranks. Even today, there are numerous media outlets
where talented, creative, business-savvy women cannot break into the upper
echelons of editorial management. While women have made great strides in so many
professions, the glass ceilings that our mothers or even we have bumped into can
remain in the most unlikely places. Nursing is no longer only “woman’s work,”
but women do still represent the vast majority of nurses in every specialty.
My intent here is not to start a gender war, but to liken women’s fight for
respect to forensic nurses’ fight for respect, especially when they battle
against the “just a nurse” syndrome in their quest to establish equal
footing with their colleagues in the forensic, medical and criminal justice
sciences. Let’s revisit that old coffee-cup slogan with a new noun: Whatever a forensic
nurse does she/he must do twice as well as a (fill in the blank) to be
considered half as good.” Has a more modern ring to it, doesn’t it?
As I communicated with various forensic nurses about their fight to break
into death investigation for this issue’s story (see page 19), the same
patterns emerged: the desire to be seen as a serious-minded professional; the
need to have access to the same kinds of career opportunities; the overwhelming thirst for the proper training, education and credentialing
that would win them jobs, promotions, grants, tenure and most of all, respect
from the forensic pathologists, investigators, forensic scientists, members
of law enforcement, prosecutors — nearly anyone who comes in contact with a
forensic nurse.
As a forensic nurse, you are still largely a sometimes invisible,
nearly-impossible-to-quantify and equally hard-to-qualify entity. It is amazing
how few people know about you yet how many people somehow appreciate you. You
are still flying below the radar, still not counted in the medical-sociological
census, if you will. But take heart. Even the smallest step forward counts on
the mileage odometer toward recognition, acceptance and reward. And remember
that coffee-cup slogan mentioned earlier? It has a kicker of a secret closing
line on the bottom of the cup: “Fortunately, this is not difficult.” Enough
said.
Please be sure to turn to page 15 to check out the Forensic Focus 2004
brochure.
Advancing the frontiers of the forensic nursing community,

Kelly M. Pyrek
Editor in Chief
kpyrek@vpico.com
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